Everything always comes around to us. We’re the ones that hold the key to solving any issues in our lives.
I came across a video by this boy. He’s 10, so I can call him boy, and he is a Mensa genius. Mensa is the organization that recognizes genius IQs around the world, and he was inducted into Mensa when he was three years old. He walked when he was six, he read when he was nine, so we’re definitely talking genius here.
But the interesting thing about him is that he’s not just talking intellectual stuff. He’s talking at such a high level in terms of spiritual principles, in terms of metaphysical truths, in terms of other dimensions of life. He talks about things like the black hole and sort of intertwines it with everyday life, so really, really amazing. And then he did this particular video, and the conversations are usually with his mom, where he addresses why sometimes high achieving women are unable to find love relationships. Very, very interesting.
Now obviously — and I want to say this because people have a lot of comments and things to say — but obviously everybody’s not looking to be in a relationship. So this applies to you if you are, and if you’re wondering why maybe you have not found that ideal relationship in your life. And the reason that I thought it was good is because in For the Love of My Father, I talk about this in terms of the fact that whatever issues we have, whatever trauma we’ve suffered, we’re the ones that are responsible for clearing those things.
And only when we clear those things do we have the opportunity to access the bounty, so to speak, of the universe. And he puts it together perfectly well. Similarly, in Answers from Within, a spiritual guide to finding answers to work-life issues, the bottom line comes down to us and finding ourselves to be spiritual beings, clearing up our issues and finding out what we’re here to do. Both of the books are available on Amazon, and you can search my name, Olivia S. Benson, and you will find it.
Let’s Take a Moment and Watch What Our Little Genius Has to Say
You can have someone help you develop the courage so you can get it, because that’s an emotional blockage.
Oh, so basically when clients come to me, they’re not necessarily coming to me to find love.
They’re coming to you to fix their blockage to find love, because everyone, everyone can find love. It’s that they have a blockage that’s stopping them from it. So they come to people to remove that blockage instead of necessarily finding love.
So then why, when people clear that blockage, right, that we work with, they tend to also clear the blockage of money as well?
It’s correlated to money, because if you’re scared, you’re not going to get money. That’s just how it is.
Yeah, but there’s some people that make a lot of money, right? Like let’s say they make $400,000 a year, and they also have love blocks. They have a hard time finding love. Are you basically saying that even though they make $400,000 a year, they could really make $4 a year?
They have that potential. And once they unblock what’s blocking them from love, then they unblock the same energy that’s blocking them from their full potential financially as well. If you don’t have any blocks from finding love, love will find you.
What do you mean?
Someone will come to you and say, Hey, I really like you. I like your outgoing, your courage, that stuff.
So wait, you’re saying if you don’t have blocks to love, then that’s what draws them in. You don’t have to look for it.
Yes. And that’s the reason why, you’re in the electromagnetic frequency.
Unforgiveness Is a Block to the Free Flowing Energy of the Universe
So isn’t he amazing? Just absolutely amazing. Now I do want to say this: on my spiritual path, I had many teachers, and one of the things that they always said — every single spiritual teacher that I’ve had has always said — is that if you are having an issue, an impasse, a blockage in your life, something is not working, the first thing that you should work on is forgiveness, because unforgiveness is a block to the flow, or to the free flowing energy of the universe.
And that’s something that I practice. And if you’ve read For the Love of My Father, there’s a whole chapter in the book about forgiveness. And actually the title of the chapter is Forgiveness, a Pill to Take Like Your Life Depends on It, because it is one of the major blockages in our lives, is unforgiveness.
So let’s talk about what our little genius says. Let’s translate what he’s saying. And I did 10 points. And if you haven’t seen the post on social media, these are the 10 points that I think, for me, and I hope that you can walk away with, because it is the question often, especially for some women — and this applies equally to men and women, but for some women — you strive, you achieve. If you’re a person of African descent, if you’re a woman of any race, you have to overcome a lot, and then you find that sometimes it is a challenge to find a mate, and it’s inconceivable to some extent. It’s like, why is it so hard? Why is it so difficult? Often the question that comes around is why. And the classic question is, why me? Or, why is this happening to me?
Everything Is Energy
So our little genius basically tells us that everything always comes around to us. We’re the ones that hold the key to solving any issues in our lives. And so he tells us — and if you haven’t listened to it carefully, listen again — he’s basically telling us that everything in the universe, which I say often, is energy in one form or another.
Everything is energy. Everything in our lives is about energy. And when things are not flowing in our lives the way we would like it to, it boils down to our energy. Is the energy flowing, or is the energy blocked?
He also basically says, if you listen to it again, when you are not manifesting your ideal life, your ideal circumstances, it’s due to a blockage of energy. He says something super interesting. The mother is asking the question about, you can make a lot of money, but you could still not have a love relationship in your life. And basically he says there’s still a blockage, and fear. If you have fear, you will not achieve what you’re looking for, because fear can block either relationships or money, but it’s still a blockage on either side. So fear is a negative energy that blocks the flow of positive energy.
He also says — he uses different language, but he says it — each of us is an energy frequency. We’re all an energy frequency, and we attract like frequency energies. Because he says, if you don’t have any blockages, what’s going to happen is that you’re going to attract, the person is going to find you right where you are.
You’re Like a Beacon With All the Damage and Trauma
And that is part of what I discussed in For the Love of My Father. Once you clear up your baggage — because before you do, you’re like a beacon with all the damage and trauma, just sending out signals to people who are not your ideal person. Now the beacons are important, because those beacons will bring you people who will allow you, so to speak, the opportunity to heal. And so that’s why it’s always for the greater good.
The other thing that he says, and we know this, I talk about it in For the Love of My Father, father trauma is a block. It’s a negative energy. Trauma creates fear, creates anxiety, creates anger, any of the emotions, and all of those things are energies that create blockages.
Now, from my perspective, clearing the blockages — because that’s what he talks about in the beginning, where he says, well, people come to you for you to remove the blockages, not necessarily for you to find the person, what they really need is for you to remove the blockages. And my primary tool, the primary tool that I recommend to remove the blockages, is forgiveness. It’s chapter four, For the Love of My Father, Forgiveness, a Pill to Take Like Your Life Depends on It.
Remember that there’s a reason: it removes blockages. And if you’re looking for something in your life, if you’re seeking love, you’re seeking financial well-being, whatever you’re seeking, look at what you need to forgive. Every single spiritual teacher that I’ve had has said it.
Healing Requires Courage
He talks about courage. And the reason that’s important, and I talk about it in For the Love of My Father, is healing requires courage. You need to be willing. And you guys know my cup: be willing. I’m willing to do the work to be whole. You can find it on my website.
And he talks about courage — I think he says it twice. You can get somebody to help you to have courage, or to support you on your journey. Those are the things that really, really make a difference.
Only You Can Heal You
And then the conclusion: once we clear our blockages, things can flow, whether it’s money, relationship, and everything. But the ultimate key is that it’s us. And that’s a hard thing. A lot of people hate it. And I hated it also.
When I started on my spiritual journey, I hated the fact that it was always about, nobody cared what anybody else had done for me. In the process, it’s like, yeah, we understand, but now it’s you. Yeah, we understand that this person did that, and that person did that, and so on and so on. But now it’s you. Because only you can heal you.
And only when you’re ready to open the passage, because the divine lives within us all. And when you clear the path so that the divine can express completely in you, then you can attract your mate, you can attract abundance. It’s not necessarily always a snap of the finger. It’s a process.
But in this video, he tells us very, very clearly. Now I would say he’s telling us all the spiritual truths, but all the spiritual truths related to this particular issue. So if you’re someone that has, as a woman, has had difficulty attracting a mate in your life, what I would say is, let’s look at what your blockages could be.
I’m Olivia S. Benson. The book that I’m talking about today is For the Love of My Father. It’s available on Amazon. And my website is OliviaSBenson.com. I’m on social media. Please check out my work.